Comments on: Why do men only talk about what men talk about? http://pualifestyle.com/blog/ambition/ Lifestyle for Modern Men Wed, 13 Apr 2011 18:42:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Marie http://pualifestyle.com/blog/ambition/comment-page-1/#comment-7444 Marie Tue, 02 Mar 2010 03:29:12 +0000 http://pualifestyle.com/blog/?p=2347#comment-7444 Great article - it highlights some common ground for those 'adults' who are unsure of them selves and their future! I think it's great that you've taken some time to analyse and discuss why we act as we do...  Great article – it highlights some common ground for those ‘adults’ who are unsure of them selves and their future! I think it’s great that you’ve taken some time to analyse and discuss why we act as we do… 

]]> By: Bri http://pualifestyle.com/blog/ambition/comment-page-1/#comment-6707 Bri Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:19:39 +0000 http://pualifestyle.com/blog/?p=2347#comment-6707 Great article. I think people these days sell themselves short as far as their aspirations and goals. We really could and should be aiming for greater ambitions. Great article. I think people these days sell themselves short as far as their aspirations and goals. We really could and should be aiming for greater ambitions.

]]> By: Tom http://pualifestyle.com/blog/ambition/comment-page-1/#comment-3332 Tom Mon, 03 Aug 2009 14:58:06 +0000 http://pualifestyle.com/blog/?p=2347#comment-3332 After publishing this article I thought about what you wrote Nick, that you want to know what others 'feel'. Often it's difficult to put emotions into words, so even if you did ask a friend directly their answer would be interpreted very differently than the reality. As I walked down the high street yesterday I tried to establish what everyone was feeling by looking at their facial expressions - after two minutes I was laughing at the huge diversity! I believe a lot can be established if we learn to pick up on the subconscious cues rather than choose to ignore them. Thanks for the comment, Tom After publishing this article I thought about what you wrote Nick, that you want to know what others ‘feel’. Often it’s difficult to put emotions into words, so even if you did ask a friend directly their answer would be interpreted very differently than the reality. As I walked down the high street yesterday I tried to establish what everyone was feeling by looking at their facial expressions – after two minutes I was laughing at the huge diversity!
I believe a lot can be established if we learn to pick up on the subconscious cues rather than choose to ignore them. Thanks for the comment,
Tom

]]> By: Chikito http://pualifestyle.com/blog/ambition/comment-page-1/#comment-3296 Chikito Sat, 01 Aug 2009 10:30:26 +0000 http://pualifestyle.com/blog/?p=2347#comment-3296 I have to say this is one of the most relevant and observant things I've ever read. You said what was already swimming around in my head, that I couldn't make clear for myself until I read that. <!-- / message --> <!-- sig --> *From Forum* I have to say this is one of the most relevant and observant things I’ve ever read.

You said what was already swimming around in my head, that I couldn’t make clear for myself until I read that.

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]]> By: Nick Krygier http://pualifestyle.com/blog/ambition/comment-page-1/#comment-3275 Nick Krygier Fri, 31 Jul 2009 03:16:58 +0000 http://pualifestyle.com/blog/?p=2347#comment-3275 I love the article Tom. I would reccomend getting it edited before you submit it to the public though. It really made me feel a lot better about my lack of a desire to sit in a circle and just talk about people's days. I want to know how they FELT during the day. I want to know what they LEARNED today. I could care less what the hell they actually did, and being so, I don't have much conversation with people where I don't excuse myself after the god-awful 'hey- how are you.' 'great- how are you?' 'great...' 'yeah...' 'So.. what'd you do today?' I just don't really seem to care that Jenny's on her period or that Billy got too drunk last night... And I'm glad to see it's not just me. I love the article Tom. I would reccomend getting it edited before you submit it to the public though. It really made me feel a lot better about my lack of a desire to sit in a circle and just talk about people’s days. I want to know how they FELT during the day. I want to know what they LEARNED today. I could care less what the hell they actually did, and being so, I don’t have much conversation with people where I don’t excuse myself after the god-awful
‘hey- how are you.’
‘great- how are you?’
‘great…’
‘yeah…’
‘So.. what’d you do today?’

I just don’t really seem to care that Jenny’s on her period or that Billy got too drunk last night…

And I’m glad to see it’s not just me.

]]> By: Katie http://pualifestyle.com/blog/ambition/comment-page-1/#comment-3269 Katie Thu, 30 Jul 2009 21:13:36 +0000 http://pualifestyle.com/blog/?p=2347#comment-3269 Great article Tom! This applies to us girlies a lot too. There is this whole thing about being a career woman now, that I think distracts us from the ambition to raise a family and help the world by being more loving. I don't know how i want to leave the world, but definitely in a better place for my future kids. *From Facebook* Great article Tom! This applies to us girlies a lot too. There is this whole thing about being a career woman now, that I think distracts us from the ambition to raise a family and help the world by being more loving. I don’t know how i want to leave the world, but definitely in a better place for my future kids.
*From Facebook*

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