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Old 11-30-2009
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Default Tried to find an appropriate forum to address this, but:

Where the hell IS everybody?

Round Table, old members, ANY members?!!?!?!

I sense dead activity. I do not like this dead activity. This dead activity will not persist.

Where are you guys?! Come out. Come back. Come forward. I am back. I am here. Here to stay. COME OUT!!!!

I sense many have lost the way. It's normal. We're SUPPOSED to lose our way. But, we're NOT supposed to lose the site.

Come on out. Act. Be present!

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I visit here whenever I can (Which is most days of the week). I post when there is something interesting to comment on, or something I need advice about. Unfortunately, there has been little activity lately that has sparked my interest. What we need is a multitude of interesting topics that bring people out of the woodwork.

If we get the ball rolling again, more guests will register if they see an active forum. Otherwise it will remain dead.
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I check the site probably 4 days a week, but I dont post every time I come on. Only when I have some advice to offer or something about myself.
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Same here only post when I got something to say or something catches my eye.
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Same same. I check a couple of times a day but don't post that often.
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Theres only so much we can talk about before it gets repetitive, I think thats mainly the reason. Unless someone here has a breakthrough, its probably not going to change.
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I think I know what's happening.

I think the site's achieve it's goal of simplifying the PUA process.

With my time away, and in the world, I can safely say that this site has to become more than just PUA advice.

To me, PUA doesn't mean Pick Up Artist. Pick up is dead. It was ALWAYS dead.

Pick up was just a narrowed version of doing what works.

...let me not go off tangent. I will put my part to get activity rolling back onto the site. I have faith a few more weeks will set everything forth again.

Just as I've come back, most of the other guys will come back. It'll take a bit of persistence, but everyone will clamber back. We've put so much into this site it cant simply die (Not that it WAS on the way to death, but some of us needed perspective).

We've all matured. As a result, we see things VERY differently that we have, say, 3 years ago.

I think the next move is to get everyone back together. Exchange new ideas. Share what's been going on in life. Share your stories. Dont care about who's reading. Post in your journals not solely to get information, but the more you write down, the more you learn about yourself, and the more you'll be able to contritube.

Give it a shot. Let's get the gears rolling. We've got to. No option. Some of us need this site. It's the hub to go to when no one else is there.

Repetitive it may seem, but life isn't. Let's get rolling here!
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Good positive attitude.

I can't promise too much participation for the next couple of weeks though; I have finals coming up.
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Yeeh, pua is dying. Its been replaced by a breed of men, that know just having the confidence to go up and say hello to a girl is enough within itself to have a decent shot of picking up. The receptivity for forums dedicated to PUA is bombed.

But of course, this isnt a forum about PUA. Its a mens life forum, its like a part of my life is complete in this place. A small but tightknit group who talk to and counsel each other in being men. Somehow ive managed to find a great place to tell my secrets and embarassing thoughts. Its great, but if I arrived today i would see an outdated forum dedicated to PUA. We need to remodel this. Just an aesthetics overhaul, and a new name a new domain. Something fresh to get the search engines running. Think about it.
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Yeeh, pua is dying. Its been replaced by a breed of men, that know just having the confidence to go up and say hello to a girl is enough within itself to have a decent shot of picking up. The receptivity for forums dedicated to PUA is bombed.

But of course, this isnt a forum about PUA. Its a mens life forum, its like a part of my life is complete in this place. A small but tightknit group who talk to and counsel each other in being men. Somehow ive managed to find a great place to tell my secrets and embarassing thoughts. Its great, but if I arrived today i would see an outdated forum dedicated to PUA. We need to remodel this. Just an aesthetics overhaul, and a new name a new domain. Something fresh to get the search engines running. Think about it.
I like that idea. I think I might post some stuff about philosophy. I took ethics this year, and a few philosophers we've talked about recently talk about things that are applicable to self improvement.
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Yeeh, pua is dying. Its been replaced by a breed of men, that know just having the confidence to go up and say hello to a girl is enough within itself to have a decent shot of picking up. The receptivity for forums dedicated to PUA is bombed.

But of course, this isnt a forum about PUA. Its a mens life forum, its like a part of my life is complete in this place. A small but tightknit group who talk to and counsel each other in being men. Somehow ive managed to find a great place to tell my secrets and embarassing thoughts. Its great, but if I arrived today i would see an outdated forum dedicated to PUA. We need to remodel this. Just an aesthetics overhaul, and a new name a new domain. Something fresh to get the search engines running. Think about it.
Pick up died when Mystery got his VH1 deal and debuted "The Pick Up Artist"

It was a cheap vehicle for people to "cheat" their way through a woman's defenses.

All pick up is is a profitable version of helping guys pick up women. At it's core, it is digusting, and vile, and vicious, aimed to dupe women.

The grand abstract of "PUA" is lifestyle, of course. But...PUA is still there.

If the term "PUA lifestyle" is still existent, then we'll never get anywhere. We need a new brand name. We've discussed this before, but the idea wasn't practical.

The only thing that makes sense to me is "MasterMindLifestyle" (MML), but to do that, we need to tie in the abstract with the concept of "Master Mind".

Whatever...in time, everything will be back on schedule.
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LAA- Lifestyle as Art
AIL- Art in Lifestyle
(the?) Better you
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Just having a ye olde brainstorm
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