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Old 12-22-2007
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I've been trying to think of a way to use this for awhile, and been debating on whether or not to ask how since its kinda personal. Here it goes, I have this scar on my side, big, probably about a foot and a half long and foot wide. I had surgeries as a toddler for a skin condition. Now, everyone I meet of course asks what it is, and I always say Shark Bite. I live in Florida so it's easy to imagine happening. I'm asking if there is a way I can work this story to help me in the game. It in no way holds me back, most think its cool. Just wondering, is there anyway I can use this to my advantage?
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lols ofc you can.. If it's a shark bite then how did you get it? Lets say you were surfing with a really close female friends little brother or something? Or a friends brother and you noticed him starting to go under or you saw him wipeout or something? On your way to fetch him or fetch his boardwhile he was on the beack you were pulled under by a shark and you fought your way out you just managed to get back to the beach with the surfboard before you collapsed.

This story is littered with DHV's, or whatever go nuts its a good story.
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I wouldn't lie about it if I were you (but do if you think you can pull it off) personally I cant live a lie like that especially if I want to hold onto the girl for a while.

Just tell her the truth and DHV about how every girl who sees it asks you and how you hoped she would be different or how you used to let it bring you down a lot and now a days you just don't waste your time with it or people who are bothered about it or bother you about it. Tell her you realized there are more important things in life than letting a scar pull you down then proceed to tell her things that are important in your life like your ambitions etc.
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If it was me, I'd probably lie about it at first, but make it obviously a lie "Knife fight with a sumatran tiger" "Dodgeball with the shattered remains of an alien spaceship" something to make them laugh, but maintain at least a little mystery. Then later, when things are getting more intimate, I'd go with pretty much what Chikito said.
Like Chik, I'd advise against trying to live a lie.
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say that that was your siamese twin that they had to remove and keep going on with it until you bust her balls and say "wow. i cant believe you bought all that". i like doing this type of thing but thats just me. just have fun with it or if your going to tell the truth/lie, go ahead and dhv spike it
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lucid, youre the man.. go with that one buddy
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Have fun with it.

Me personally, I choose not to lie to women about things in my life. I like to be as real as I can be, and since I'm actively involved in self-improvement and other activities I don't have trouble running out of things to talk about. That's your call though, you can do like lucid said and have fun with it, or you can run with a shark story. It doesn't really matter, chances are she'll be interested either way you go.
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