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i wanted to get alot of your opinions on whether you ever condone lying (particularly in stories of DHV). would you tell a guy with a life void of excitement to fabricate stories atleast at first?
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I think there s a subtle difference between straight up LYING and EXAGERATING... Now i also don't believe that nobody has such a lame life that they can't exagerate any of their real-life stories to DHV themselves (unless you ve been living in a cave for the past 20 years).

so, semi-lies (exagerations) based on true events are ok, but don't make them too big or you will get caught later on
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I did something on this a while back (See "Honesty" post).

After reading feeback, I re-tuned my focus.

Dont lie, EXAGGERATE!

I'll leave it up to you to figure the rest. xD
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It's not lying. It's flirting. And people do it all the time.

I'm a master of bullshit. I lie with a straight face, or with a huge smile on. If you're not comfortable with that, then by no means should you resort to it, but don't rule it out. Your words have power; if you say something about yourself that isn't true, and you say it often enough, it becomes true.
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http://pualifestyle.com/forum/showth...hlight=honesty

oh, your right blackbull. gold mine, thanks. sorry for the double post then. i think i've read every post on this board except that. i think a few little fun lies would be for everyone's benefit including the target. it won't be like "so i had this supermodel girlfriend who was a nimpho" it would be more like "this one time a was being stalked by this girl i was seeing's crazy roided-up ex". i would still be conscious of what i can get away with and what i might be called out on if the relationship progresses. thanks guys.
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do what it takes to make it happen... do you wanna get the girl or not? bottom line
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The way I look at it is, Can they obviously tell that it is a lie? If they CAN then it is flirting and that is okay. If they can't then that is lying.

HB10: "What do you do?"
PUA : "DeSeeder, I'm the guy who pulls out all those seeds from the Seedless watermelons, Your welcome."

NOT a lie.

HB10:"What do you do?"
PUA: "I'm a Doctor turned lawyer."

umm.. unless you did all those years of schoolin then this is a lie.

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The way I look at it is, Can they obviously tell that it is a lie? If they CAN then it is flirting and that is okay. If they can't then that is lying.

HB10: "What do you do?"
PUA : "DeSeeder, I'm the guy who pulls out all those seeds from the Seedless watermelons, Your welcome."

NOT a lie.

HB10:"What do you do?"
PUA: "I'm a Doctor turned lawyer."

umm.. unless you did all those years of schoolin then this is a lie.

EvoJ

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