Qualifiers

[Rye]

I am having some difficulty conceptually with qualifiers. Sub consciously, I am doing very well and do things PUAs should do naturally. I cock block kids, when they pat me on the back i pay them, when they direct me, i disobey, question, and dlv them, all done naturally at this point. Something i do not do naturally yet is when to qualify. Since I am in still somewhat of a AFC mindset, I have only been picking up little by little.

Specific question, if a girl is being a bitch, an HB9 or 10, being a complete bitch. What do you do besides walk away? If you thought you had a real shot at the bitchy 9 or 10, how do you qualify yourself when she is a bitch? Say to her frinds "Is your friend always this rude?" playfully?

I called up this HB10 when I got back to my dorm. She wanted to smoke a blunt with me but I went to my room first, cause the end of the night my game was going downhill. anyway, when I called her she asked "who is this?" and I just ignored her question and said "yo blal blah, i got pizza but cant finish it, blah blah, im giving it away if you dont call me in 5" How do you qualify yourself to girls who constantly shit test you with rude comments, remarks and shit? I swear i think that HB10 knew I was calling her, but she still asked "Who is this?" Opinions? comments? rules on qualifers? Ive read the books but the idea hasn't sunk in yet.. Much preciation -Rye

[EvoJ]

Qualifiers are basically you showing that you fulfill what she needs in a man. BUT, if you say "I have a stable job and I'm not crazy jealous." (which is technically qualifying yourself) That is you suplicating (bad). But if you give proper DHV's then you can show these traits without either looking like a douche or looking like a Braggart. And that is how you Qualify to be a mate of hers.

Now, when SHE qualifies to you:

PUA:"I could never date a dog person"
HB:" I'm totally a cat person."

That is her sending you a MASSIVE IoI... she has just tried to convince you that SHE fits what YOU want in a mate. She is qualifying to you. Recognise it!

Hope this helps.

EvoJ

[LINK]

She probably deleted your number if she was asking "who is this"

[Zthirtytwo]

Sadly C-dub could be right, but keep working on her, just dont suplicate and seem needy.

[Rye]

this is the SAME CHICK i am talking about in my "**major PROBLEM" post!

[matrixx]

Sounds like you haven't even built attraction to even begin the qualifying stage. If she asks "who is this?", then chances are she really doesn't know or didn't ever put your name/number into her phone. (or deleted it) With her being a "pothead", its hard to place her mental state to be honest with you. Thing is, if you left her messages on facebook, and she didn't acknowledge them in passing or through web, I would have probably backed off her.

[Pav]

Yeah, probably looking too deep into it when assuming it's a shit test. Half the time MY GIRLFRIEND doesn't know it's me if I just say 'hi' cos her phone doesn't come up with the number.

[matrixx]

Originally Posted by Rye

this is the SAME CHICK i am talking about in my "**major PROBLEM" post!

In that case. Disregard all advice and lose that number.