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What is the best way this should be done and what vulnerabilites should be exposed? obviously i need to demonstrate value and that im alpha first but once I get past that and build some comfort how should I expose a hole that the girl can fill? Should I talk about how this or that happened in my childhood or what? Thanks
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once she is interested, the next stage is the male to female. screen her, and when she says something you genuinely think is cool give her IOI's for it. after that you can compliment her on that and then go to the comfort stage
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once she is interested, the next stage is the male to female. screen her, and when she says something you genuinely think is cool give her IOI's for it. after that you can compliment her on that and then go to the comfort stage
so i talk about vulnerabilites in the comfort phase?
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Definately in the comfort stage.

The best way is to add them into your DHV stories. Mystery has done alot of fucked up shit lately but he has produced some amazing things..obviously.

He tells a story (on the phone mostly) about how he went shopping and couldnt think of anything to buy her for when she comes over. he says that he usually has a few coronas lying around for when his other firends come round but didnt know what drink she likes! So then he'd mention that somthing reminded him of how his sister and him used to go out and buy pommegranite for each other. And how his sister used to peel it for him. And how one day he peeled it for her and she thought he ate it when he really prepared hers for her. So he buys a pommegranite and give it to his target.

Basically things like that, stories of vunerable moments. Its really pure genius.
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