Noticed how mystery talks

[Zthirtytwo]

Ive seen a few of mystery's online videos and noticed how he tends to pause a lot. I remember that this was an NLP routine I think. Do any of you guys out there know anymore about this, im just curious.

[Hector M.]

Pausing is a technique commonly used by public speakers and storytellers to build anticipation.

When you pause, people think "Wait, what happened?", and become focused 100%.

An essential tool for PUAs to internalize.

[Zthirtytwo]

Thank you, it does deffinately get you a little more focused on him while he talks even on videos.

[LINK]

He does this for emphasis. You will concentrate on every single word that he says. It says to do this in the venusian handbook I believe.. I'm going to go check right now.

[El rey(the king)]

Exactly. I like to do this to get the targets full attention and anticipation. And i got the idea from mystery, because i also noticed the way he talks. Its a really cool way how to draw people in the conversation. I like to delay my words or pause in the middle of a sentence for a quick second.

[Nicholas Fahrenheit]

I did Debating at school for 4 years before I started all this.
Pausing is indeed effective for emphasis and can also prolong time, obviously.

Dont copy mystery though, you should work on this yourself and find when its best for you to pause.

[Chikito]

A few little snips and tricks i picked up from my NLP training:

When speaking and to a set and you wana find out whos the most dissintrested (even when there all listening to you) you just lower your volume, try to make it as unoticable as possible. Then quickly watch the BL of your set see whos the 1st to come in and whos the last. That way you can calibrate to the cockblockers and know who you need to establish more friendlyness with. If its your target you just need to neg her or whatever.

Another little trick that i think Mr. F will probably know about, is that when ever you start a new thread or topic. Shift your stance a little bit. Either lean another way, walk a little etc and that way your keeping them intrested and generating more intrest in the new subject of conversation. You will notice alot of motivational speakers will use this.

Another trick (very nlp if you dont belive in this it wont work) with your set or target what ever (audience if your performing/speaking) imagine a pink bubble wrapping you and your audience just visualize it around the two of you (I infact somtimes use this as a little game/trick) one belief of NLP is that thoughts to some extent can be heard (imo its through EXTREAMLY subtle BL like pupil dilation and certain muscles in the eyes etc) by another person. For some reason pink is the colour of rapport (Duno why). Experiment with it, try using a black bubble for somone you dont wana gain rapport with. Just tool with random people on the street, when you approach imagine that pink bubble and rapport will follow suit much quicker. Dont ask why it happens just give it a go.

Also somthing I really incorporate into my game is my voice tonality (to much sucess). Ill open and attract my target and set with a voice tonality is my normal tonality (slightly deep but not slow, normal speed) this tonality hasnt held me back yet so im fine. Then when I isolate (usually involves a walk of somesort) I turn on my tonality i developed in my NLP seminar where they were teaching about hypnosis (if you ever listened to Hypnotica's spinx thing thats what its like, just faster) and ill use my deep slow voice (not acessive) but that tonality makes people comply to you much more and is extreamly 'seductive'. Just to speed up the comfort and rapport between us, it helps to make a noticable change in the pace of your interaction. It makes them feel more at comfort and feel inclined to talk to you about more personal things.

[VEE]

he also talks like a fag...so does style, mehow and Lance mason...

[Chikito]

And all of those guys get laid way more than you do probably :P :P :P

[Nicholas Fahrenheit]

What Chikitos saying is correct, its called dynamic conversation. It's where the conversation is actively taking place outside the words, changes in stance/tone/pace. When you change stance or pace slightly it shifts focus and activates other parts of the brain. A conversation should never take place when you arent changing focus posture etc..

This is very much a natural thing for most people, but if it isnt for you (whoever reads this) as long as you can remember to adjust you can get this aswell easily.