This morning I woke up lying next to a beautiful naked girl.
This thread is in continuation of FR: My Quickest Number Close
We agreed to meet up in front of a popular public place, and I got there a bit early - note, what does a man do when waiting? At first I was a bit nervous, but after a few deep breaths all was calm. A forty year old lady walked past and then stopped. She looked at me with an expression that meant, 'are you the guy I'm supposed to be meeting?' I nearly bailed wondering if I had completely forgotten what the girl I was supposed to be meeting looked like. Eventually the forty year old left as I mumbled in my head how I would deny who I was etc.
Then to my left she arrived. She was even more attractive than I had remembered which encouraged me a lot. After a brief hug and kiss on the cheek we wondered off to a restaurant she knew, talking and laughing away. At the place the waitor had to return three times because we were talking so much - which is a good sign. Topics ranged vast and far, but because we were sitting opposite no kino could be initiated.
After dinner (still talking and laughing) I explained that we should bounce and get a drink. Sadly she was driving but we still headed towards a nice bar. En route I spotted a strange statue fairly far away. Taking advantage of the opportunity I grabbed her hand and took her there to see. Nothing special. In the bar I knew that kino had to be escalated and fast to develop greater rapport. Purposefully I arranged the seats so that she was close and we wouldn't have to shout.
We played the game Murder, Marry, Shag which I hadn't done in ages. And that was quite fun but when she asked me what my degree course meant I held her hand and spelt out the letters in the air. We had a couple of thumb wars which she loved, and I also did a palm reading - again something I hadn't done in a very long time. Bizarrely she loved it and said it was so true of her lifestyle. Whilst talking, a made a strong effort in multiple threads, for example "On Friday after rally-car racing I went to this club..." combined with normal conversational kino such as touching her arm and leg.
To an extent it worked, we continued to laugh and smile for a good hour or so just having awesome conversation. She kept looking at her dress line on her legs and breasts as in to check that they weren't to high or low respectively. I didn't know whether this was a sign of nervousness or attraction??
But I couldn't help but feel she was quite closed. Her body language suggested as such - cross legged, arms nearly folded. And of course I wanted to change this. At the start I tried using open body language myself, mirroring hers then suggesting open changes. For example when telling a story I would make open gestures with my hands to express emphasis on happiness. Again this worked to an extent, she did uncross her arms, turned more towards me etc. Yet after a while I was just straight up and made a joke, following with "aww look you've gone all shy: Crossed legs and folded arms", she laughed and completely opened up afterwards.
So all was good. We left the bar and then she dropped a bomb.
"How are you getting home?"
"Err Bus..."
"OK cool, would you like a lift to the stop?"
I was thinking ahh fuck. In the car she said to me, "so where's the bus station?" and I replied explaining that I didn't know (which was the truth). Trying to stall for time we talked about some other shit and then I thought just go for it, simulataneously shitting my pants I said, "Look if you were in my car after a good night out, I would at least invite you back for a tea or coffee." Thankfully she replied, "Oh, we don't have coffee but would you like a tea?"
Phew.
We arrived at her place, and I asked for her to give me the tour. Taking the time to look around and ask about various things including the other house mates. She made me laugh when she asked, "did you really want a cup of tea?" Of course I did. Then we went back to her room and things got weird. I guess it was LMR, but I haven't had much experience with this so I've gotta search this forum for some good posts on that. Basically she turned on the TV and started watching shit. I watched for a bit wondering what the hell to do.
After 5 minutes I said that this was boring and turned it off. We sat on the bed talking for a while and she kept on saying how tired she was. Then her drunken flat mate came home and I spoke to her for a long while, after showing both of them funny YouTube videos. Then, whilst talking to her flat mate, she got into bed fully dressed and fell asleep! Ok, so maybe she really was tired. Eventually the flat mate went off to bed and in doing so the other girl woke up.
"We're going to be spooning buddies tonight. You cool with that?"
"Haha I haven't been asked that before. OK"
So after dedressing somewhat and turning off the lights we got in bed lay there talking more - TOO MUCH TALKING. Although she had closed body language that's to be accepted, I was just a muppet waiting for God to literally send a lighting bolt that would force us together.
"Hey Chick"
"What?"
"Nothing...Hey Chick"
"What?"
"Nothing...Hey Chick"
*silence - kiss *
The rest is beautiful history.
Actually, there was more LMR after this, just before having sex she said the usual, "I don't normally do this...I've just met you...This is crazy" to which my reply was on the lines of "I know, you're such a bad influence." I really need to learn some more stuff about LMR. Style's method of turning on the lights and logging on to facebook didn't appeal to me. Not much of his stuff does.
Things To Learn- Music knowledge - during conversation a few times I was dumbfounded with a lack of music information, similarly to a few films that I should watch.
- How to open a girl's body language more, to escalate kino and also emotions. I would love to be able to tell a story where there's a great cresendo.
- How to avoid "how are you getting home tonight?"
- Including sexual topics in conversation
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