This isnt going to be a traditional field report, more an update of me as I am out in the clubs since the beginning of the year.
I have been to two clubs and one bar...dominated the clubs, but the bar is a little different so I didnt have much success there. I treated myself over the holidays to two new outfits, gone a little tighter with the jeans, a little more pricey on the shirts, a military hat, and some diesel shoes. Theres something about knowing that you look damn good that gives you confidence you didnt know that you had.
It was new years day, friends and I are bored so we are like fuck it, lets go to the club district and see whats going on. We hit our favorite spot, its no cover for 21+
, we walked in and holy shit its actually packed. We expected it to be a slower night, but we realize its so packed because they closed the downstairs area which is much larger, but this is a plus because it makes everyone party in one spot, so the dance floor is littered with women. I pregamed on the way, grabbed a drink, planned the night, and went to work. Im not going to lie, I surprised the hell out of myself. Im normally more conservative, hesitant to approach, a bit shy. But something about a great outfit and the hat, I call it my lucky hat now haha, but we must have danced with just about every group of girls in there. There were a few that shot us down, but we kept in moving and kept on dancing. I actually practiced some dance moves at home over winter break do I actually got a legit opportunity to put them to use.
These two girls come out of nowhere and steal the show. One spanish and one white girl, immediately following their entrance to the dance floor, follows a group of desperate guys. The two girls conveniently started dancing very close to us, so we "ignore them" and let the guys try and dance with them, but they arent having it. Normally it would be two of my other friends that would get them, but they shot me a glance and I put those dance moves to work. I guess I had to earn it because after about 15-20 seconds of dancing she backs up and we start grinding. I know Im the man at this point because I feel the stares, all those guys who FAILED and I won
. I get a pat on the back from my friends as they go to the bar. A few songs go by and we depart, we saw them later but my cousin who the other girl liked had a girl so they werent into it with my other friends. That was the highlight of that night.
The bar sucked, I hated it, not much dancing...slow night. That was the day after.
Fast forward to yesterday, we went to our favorite spot again, 3 guys including myself and bought two female friends with us. One of them newly single so we made sure she had fun while also encouraging her to go meet guys because we let her know we were going to flirt after a little bit of group dancing. One of my friends who does most of the approaching didnt go, so it was left to us to do all the work. First half hour I had nerves and did nothing. Got another drink (liquid courage) and finally just went in. I actually teamed up with some random guy because we saw a group of 3 chicks so we are like, yo lets wing and get these, we did. OMG Im not going to lie, she almost got me hard, it def grew but that was it.
Shot down a few times in between, then my cousin is taken, but this place was loaded with women, so he told me he was coming out of retirement for the night. We used to look up to him, but he slowed down and didnt make any approaches, so I did for him. What I thought was a group of two girls turned into a group of 5, but I approached two and was like "hey ladies, you girls dancing tonight". The brunette was hesitant, but the blonde was all for it, I wanted th eblonde badly but the brunette grabbed by hand. Stupidly my cousin didnt follow me and and I kinda reached for him and told the blonde its my cousin. The whole time we were dancing I just wanted to stop, kick my cousin off and take the blonde, I was jealous because she could dance. More approaches, a couple more times shot down but overall a great night. And I did have my hat so its still lucky.
Thats its so far, off to a great year, having fun and cant wait to go back to school.
FR: A New Year...A New Me
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