Perspectives

[Hector M.]

I've sat down, and reflected on what I've learned, what I'm learning right now, and what I may learn in the future.

I can write a whole book on this subject, but everything, in itself, is what it is.

Sure, you can learn how to be social by reading a book, going out to see how shit works, or hanging with other people, but is it not more important to see the common threads that WORK?

For example:

-Cocky/Funny is bullshit. You don't need it.
-"Peacocking" is bullshit. Dress FASHIONABLY.
-Routines are bullshit. Know yourself, and know your surroundings.

In other aspects of life:

-Financial Experts are bullshit. YOU are your own expert; all you are required to do is educate yourself on those subjects.
-Organized religion is bullshit. Know yourself, and your beliefs; then adopt a code to follow.
-Fate is bullshit. YOU create your own life. Each happening around you is the product of an alternate happening. Work around it, don't fight it. If it happens, it happens.

Even your own beliefs may very well be false. We were taught a mix of "what works", and "what doesn't work". Sadly, we don't know the difference.

Nature is truth. The now is truth. You are truth.


Perspectives...we all see things in different perspectives. Most of us were forced to look through certain perspectives.

Think outside the box. You're at the start of a race. You have one objective: "Get to the finish line. That's it".

...ok, so you set yourself up. The road is a 325mile run through a canyon, a dried lake, a city, and a forest. It's a long trip, and may tire you.

You don't feel up for running. You ponder the situation...




...stop pondering.

Who said you had to RUN to the finish line? You could take a cab, and get there, then cross the line. You can DRIVE there yourself. You can take ANOTHER WAY.

Whatever works for YOU, do it. If you want a cab, take the cab. If you want to drive, DRIVE. Want to take the alternate path; be my guest.

The leaders and go-getters of this world did things no one else did. To be able to SEE what no one else has done, you need to acknowledge that the way you see the world may not be as true as you think, and when you see that there are multiple ways to "skin a cat", you make yourself that much stronger.

What is your lifestyle? It may not be my intended lifestyle. It may be similar. Perhaps you don't want a lifestyle. Perhaps you're too rich to care. Perhaps you don't have a computer, live in the slums of Guatemala or Sudan, and don't even know how to spell the world lifestyle. (In which you're not reading this right now, or you may be a lucky native who got access to a missionary's computer, and JUST SO happened to stumble upon this wonderful jolly website of grown men looking to move forward in life.).

Point proven: You can choose to see the world however you want. However, you have the RESPONSIBILITY to see it in a way that works for you, and people around you.

Responsibility is a perspective choice. You can live like a deadbeat, or live like a champion (Those definitions aren't clear, but you get my point).

Live where you bring as much value to people as possible. That tends to get you what you want "materially".

Thank you.

[Nicholas Fahrenheit]

Anyone can learn a lesson, whether you choose to use that lesson is another thing entirely. I learnt a big lesson, never sleep with your ex.. Didnt stop me doing it many times. Dont just learn, employ the lessons you've learned to everyday life, and use them to never make the same mistake twice, and improve your day to day life.

You make your own luck, so be ready and be prepared, if you want something bad enough and are motivated enough, then come hell or high water, you will end up with it. surely enough.

[Hector M.]

You know what's funny Nick F? I was about to touch on what you just said. xD.

More on perspective.


Life doesn't discriminate between good and evil. You can have a just, moral, kind human being, and a rotten, scheming, horrible snake in the grass, and regardless of alignment, whomever produces the positive results, wins.

A sad truth...but a positive reality.

If life is measured by SUCCESSES, and not by INTENTION, then essentially, that is the FAIREST of rules, even if it's unfair to YOU.

If there is a definite result, there is a way to achieve that result. If life was 100% subjective, we'd get nowhere. Results rule the world.

So, how does this tie in with perspective?


(IDEALLY)...


The one who frames their life perspective on results tends to live life a whole lot easier than others


Easy to type, but once a person aims to LIVE that ideal, life becomes somewhat "unfair". Not all of us were born talented and adept at what we're currently doing right now.

...but, that's where learning many many skillsets comes in. The more you know how to do, the more valueable you are. Increase your value, you'll live happily.

...This sucks, but what's the alternative? Bitching, whining, and complaining?

I guess, we should all aim to change our life perspectives towards results, instead of how we WANT things to be. Apparently, living by what is, instead of what should be is easier said than done.

Let's hope for the best.

[jacks2028]

In our mind we easily create negative impact but we didn't know the true. In case another person is true and we are wrong. So always think with cool mind and takes right decision for any person or things.

[denial121]

I have read this all of the stuff and would like to say you that one thing that diseases tend not to discriminate, but those in poor countries have fewer means to fight back, and poverty remains a common root cause of ill health.