How do you pre-select women?

[Bob]

How do all of you preselect women before you approach them at a bar, club, party, mall, etc? I'm interested to know how everybody else does this and how pre-selection changes as you get better at Pick-Up. Pre-selection can be as simple as taking what you can get.

Almost all of us will have a cutoff looks wise when we're out while others will just play the odds as well. Then there are also those of us who go out and not only take into account to looks, but posture, confidence level, smile, apparent personality, and even swagger.


I pre-select in two different ways when I go out; in an atmosphere where I'm in competition with with other guys, and all other times when I'm just out and happen to see somebody that intrigues me. While I take looks into account and generally won't open anybody less than say a 7 just to make things easier on the eyes you could say.

When in competition - While at a party/bar etc... people are out looking to pick others up. This means that women have a lot more guys hitting on them and you also have a larger percent of promiscuous women about as well. It's said that there are Yes, Maybe, and No girls. Yes girls don't have any challenge value to me so I generally observe and find the chicks who are actively turning guys down or even better, just messing with them. These ones generally have quite the swagger, confidence level and biting wit as well. These are the ones i go after.

General pre-selection - When I'm generally out, I generally look for somebody who stands out of the crowd. Somebody with a strong physical presence (no, not like oprah) which are those people that when you're around them, even if they aren't talking or doing anything, you can sense an intense aura radiating from them. Most of it has to do with confidence or at least projection of it as all women have their confidence issues.

what about you guys? how do you pick out your women? and if you're a chubby chaser then you can just tell us you only go for the better looking chicks and leave it at that. Everybody has their own preferences

[VEE]

looks are what attracts me but a woman how can journey to different states with me through show casing her personality is worth to me. If she doesn't respect me, isn't honest, thinks i should worship her like the other beta males then i have no time for her, i might give her one chance for her to straighten herself out but thats it..

What are the rules that you live by?

[Rye]

well I'm 5'8 so right off the bat, I do not go for any HB an inch taller than me. I wear some nice boots that make me taller, though. As for specifics dealing with HBs, I really like the HB that is under the radar. This is the kind of girl that is cute, but is not necessarily the "leader" of the group of girls. Most of the girls who lead groups are stuck up bitches, or the ones I know at least. What I look for is that chick who once is brought into the light and seen thoroughly, she is actually pretty cute. I also have high standards and only go for HB8+, which may explain my inconsistancy, but at least I know one thing I value.

[AshleyL]

One of My Guy Friends who's REALLY into the PUA scene uses KWML (!) and it's pretty crazy how he can just pick each girl out of a crowd and know exactly how she's going to act, what her favorite hobbies are, etc.

Then he walks over and starts talking to her and flirting and talking with her just to prove it to me, and to piss me off.

Then he uses it on ME and starts picking apart secrets about me that I haven't even told him yet. Bastard.

Then I have to punch him in the arm, lol.

I hate that It works so well. Oh Jeez.