make yourself more interesting...

[Chad C.]

this is a little old for most guys, but more so for newbies coming in...


hb: so what do you do?
PUA: not much, i just like hanging with friend..'
hd: oh, cool.. (thinking, fuck me, this guys boring..)

ever been in this situation???
that hottie cant wait to get away from you...

If you do nothing interesting, then you can not BE interesting....

join a sports club (basketball, football, cricket... whatever)
join a gym (this place is great for the obvious reason of getting into shape, but there is an abundance of women who have great bodies there to open. and its way easirt to open them in the gym than on the street or in a bar...)
general interest club (language classes, paintings etc)
dance class (salsa, flamingo classes are great for meeting/ interacting women and building sexuality with them..)
get a hobby (book club, cooking classes etc)

these things build several qualities..

1. it makes you interesting...you create stories and different facets of your life that will lead to further conversation..


hb: so what do you do?
PUA: well, i have just taken up surfing. i love getting up early and going surfing when the sun is rising...... blah blah...
hb: wow, thats so cool....

2. it builds confidence
key to inner game.
you will learn how to interact with strangers and how to appeal to them. You will have confidence to talk to anybody about yourself and lead a conversation.
you will build experiences that will creat interest in you - thus create confidence. Gym, languages, books etc all leads to you being stronger inside..

3.increase your social circle...
the more social circles you build, the more people you will engage in. the more opportunities you will create to meet women.


the above ideas to join clubs/ activities is not to focus on women - its to focus on you and build your skills. they are to benefit you in life........

good luck

[Trapstar]

I agree 100%. If you don't do anything interesting, why in the world would she want to hang out with you? I play three sports at my school (I know, I'm a jock) and that's what I tell people. They think I'm the shit too. Even if you're not very good at something, you'll never get any better by sitting on your ass at your friends house playing his next-gen gaming system. You need to at least do something, because you never know, you might make some new friends and they might know some hot babes. Telling women you like to hang out with your buds and play Halo 3 all day may sound cool to you but to mostly every women out there (or at least the ones who count) that sounds like you have no life. Get out there and make yourself known.

[Chad C.]

i bought halo 3 the day it come out... granted - not a great selling point to chicks.. but fuck it - i say it with pride anyway!!

my username is: lisameesa

if anyone wants to network - hit me up...

anyway.....

[Pav]

Zomg halo 3! Man, the hammer of destruction is so sick. Too bad I don't have a 360 yet...
Nice post btw.

[Bob]

i forget who said it but they said always make things outrageous. say you're a spy for Switzerland, or that you're a professional bullshitter (this one's my favorite and it works too because i can make people believe almost anything) surfing is great too though (i have a battle scar on the back of my head from getting sharked surfing one day)

[Chad C.]

many times its in the telling

ie..
hb: what do you like to do?
ming: oh, not much. i generally sit around home and play games..' (your body language becomes deflated and you drop eye contact.

OR
hb: what do you like to do
ming: oh fuck - lately i got this unreal game!! all my mates come over, we drink beers and turn on the bbq!!!! then we take turns blowing each others heads off!!! its wicked..!! probably more of a guy thing - but i am ALL MAN babe!! hehehe'

dont be embarresed by what you do - fucking embrace it.
women love guys who have passion. Now you wont sell them with the games you play, but you will with the passion you show..
you can make yourself more intersting in the telling!! sell yourself....

[Cyan]

Yeah exactly so Ming, I was driving this HB around the other day and I told her I had got Halo 3 and she didn't know what it was, so i told her with great pride that it was only one of the greatest games out at the moment and that I was proud to have it and that i loved playing it and was very profficient in killing other people. Had I been a nerdy weed telling it like it is, I would not have got very far, but the way I said it, was in a way that the girl could not be sure whether I was bullshitting or not, so she laughed anyway (IOI for sure), she may have believed it but it doesn't really matter, her interest is now engaged...

[LINK]

Definitely go into something you are passionate about life and explain it to them the best you can, with a lot of enthusiasm. They eat it up and will just love you even more because you have goals in life (which makes you a suitable mate)

[Nicholas Fahrenheit]

Theres a really strong mystery technique that goes with this, its called grounding. Most of you guys have probly used it before, when she says to you..

hb:What do you do?
pua: I work as a lab technician in a pathology company.

Yeh go f*ck yourself mr boring, what this technique does is help them to feel as you feel and see as you see (saw 4 was f*cking awesome btw)

hb:What do you do?
pua: Well, when i was 5 my parents bought me this microscope, aside from the obvious attraction of burning ants and shit, i had this awesome system of looking at things and telling everyone about them, it was great, i learnt so much! When i was in grade 8 this kid bought a microscope in for show and tell right so i beat him up until he let me have a go of it, i was amazed! i ended up cutting my eyelashes back so they wouldnt get in the way when i looked through the lens!! And now i look through microscopes for a living, i work with this great bunch of geeks, one of the guys there actually took part in a land speed record awesome huh!!

[Nicketas]

Fantastic thread.

I would add to this: READ MORE BOOKS. You'd be suprised at the wealth you will gain from this alone.

Diversify your musical taste. This has the dual benefit of being more fun AND enticing you to go to different types of concerts to have fun and meet women.

Want to meet hot girls at a good show?

Google Four Words: Sound Tribe Sector Nine.

[express]

Originally Posted by Ming the Merciless

many times its in the telling

ie..
hb: what do you like to do?
ming: oh, not much. i generally sit around home and play games..' (your body language becomes deflated and you drop eye contact.

OR
hb: what do you like to do
ming: oh fuck - lately i got this unreal game!! all my mates come over, we drink beers and turn on the bbq!!!! then we take turns blowing each others heads off!!! its wicked..!! probably more of a guy thing - but i am ALL MAN babe!! hehehe'

dont be embarresed by what you do - fucking embrace it.
women love guys who have passion. Now you wont sell them with the games you play, but you will with the passion you show..
you can make yourself more intersting in the telling!! sell yourself....

Yeah I agree 100%. If you talk enthusiastically and with conviction about ANYTHING you can get girls interested.

Hype it up and sell the shit out of it. Salesmanship.

A classic example I recall is from Jeffy/Jlaix at RSD. He used to get girls back to his house by telling them he had a full sized basketball court in his house. Theyd get to his house and find out it was a little nerf ring and ball hanging from the door of his bedroom. Still cool.

I met this guy who extracts groups of girls back to his place from nightclubs with the promise of "the most awesome gourmet pizza's" and a chilled after party.

Remember what you say really dosent matter, instead its how you say it... body language, tonality etc.

I'm sure you could attract a girl by telling her you are a garbologist. Strong body language, sound enthusiastic. "Yeah im a garbo, I love it. I travel all day, meet heaps of new people. Make pretty good money, my boss dosent really bother me... and I get so much free stuff"