Compliance tests: passed. Effort from fer: failed. Advice?

[Tom Church]

HB9 i met at a party last week, * closed. Called the following day, and met up with her that day too. Kept it fun and interesting, made out a few times etc, all was good.

A couple of texts continued during the week, however these were initiated by me. I freezed her out for a couple of days, then called to invite her to party.

She came. We had a good time. However, I don't want to call again, rather I want her to call me. So for the last 3 days I haven't spoken to her. I'm determined not to call her ever again until she initiates the convo, even if it means not seeing her again.

What do you guys think? I quite like this one.

[Giacomo]

She seems to be in to you man so go ahead, call her.
Alot of girls I hang out with complain about the fact that "I really liked him but he never called me again!"
Don't fall into that trap just because of your pride.
Call her again, just don't make the calls to frequent and needy.
There is no shame in calling a girl asking her to hang out. Some might say DLV, but I wonder if those people are getting laid.

[Tom Church]

well i understand how some girls simply do not phone...they only text (there's a post about this somewhere here).

Here's a compremise Giac, i'll send a text later tonight, just saying like "haven't spoken in a while, how've you been?" sort of thing...get a reply, and i'll move towards organising going shopping on sunday.

what you think dude?

[kcomico]

Originally Posted by Giacomo

Alot of girls I hang out with complain about the fact that "I really liked him but he never called me again!"

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As far of the text thats all you whatever you have been doing has attracted her.

[Giacomo]

At this stage Cal I don't think you have to worry about any course of action you take. Text, call, whatever. She will still be into hanging out with you some more.
In situations like this it's better not to follow set "routines" or guidelines. Just be pragmatic and think about the reaction you will get from each action you take.

Do what you feel comfortable with, but keep in mind that if you want to exceed your expectations, you will eventually have to step out of that comfort zone.