Are women really the problem?

[Nicholas Fahrenheit]

One thing about this business is true, you start to see the same problems reoccuring in every guy, our good friend Darwin says that they should all be dead by now, but they are not. Being in this scene for as long as I have has started to alter my mind, are women really the problem, or are we incapable of attraction as a species of men? (if anyone tells me that sounded like sex&the city, i'll fuck them up)

3 Times in the last week I've had to deal with little piss-heads coming up to me and complaining to me that the one girl their heart coo's over is obsessed with her ex who cheated on her with her best friend then he caught them having sex and he laughed at him, as did she, which she later said was just because hed walk out if she didnt find it as funny as her. Not the same situation all the times, but this was the worst. It seems that women are a lot more consistent than us..? They know what they want and they always seem to get it, they've got the whole thing worked out.. they hit the spot everytime! they have sexual supremacy and the sheer volume of hopeless guys means the chasing is done collectively in ther direction. This very site and this concept was(is) dedicated to getting the woman to sleep with you..

Cultural standpoints have been telling this to men for years and years, but they still wimper and complain that women treat them badly and dump them for guy who break their hearts. Its true, but soooo many of these men are soo stupid that adaption seems beyond them.. Darwin has been slapped in the face, even lamarck has been slapped in the face. Men as a species in the realm of sex (not reproduction) are hopeless. The only light in the darkness of these deep mess are the prescious few who have all taken shelter from the shit storm on the various websites that give them the strength to endure this, and walk out and attempt to stop the never ending torrent. Good luck guys, im glad im under the puals umbrella.. We gotta fix this mess.

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[Chikito]

I couldn't agree more.

I see it every time I go out. You probably all see it too. Over confident assholes who think they are in control and know exactly what's going on, they think they know women then you watch and you just watch him get played so bad by the girls. usually ending in a frustrated man and giggling girls.

Social intelligence trumps.
Simply put - The majority of Men have it so wrong. thankfully we are here to help.

[Hector M.]

...that sounded like something from Sex & The City.lol.

Jes kiddin. Very true Nick. It's sad for me to say this, but men are pussies these days. They're weak-willed, chasing, immature, undisicplined wimps who dont understand the world around them.

Now women arent innocent either. Their fatal flaw is that, at times, they let their emotions get the better of them. For men, they refuse to seek help, and try to hamfist their way through problems before consulting others.

I place more blame on men that women on this regard, because it's natural for women to let emotions take over. For men, it's just ego and pride that drives them to learn the hard way, and ego and pride destroy man, when not controlled. In order to ascend to an ideal lifestyle, whichever it may be, pride must be quelled.

Nick, you've got it on the dot, and we see eye to eye on many things. Keep it up.

[Tom Church]

what we have to remember is that your arguement only holds for the society around you...i.e. The Western World.

We don't know what the situation is like in the other continents. Also, in some societies, mating is extremely different. There are tribes which worship as woman as their queen and therefore devout leader.

I honestly don't think the problem is that big. After all, the population is still rising isn't it? I recon it's just that some men take longer to learn then others. If you have no experience with women, or at least, very little, then it will take you longer to learn the lessons of relationships...

[Daniel Becerra]

First of all I disagree with Hector (sorry) on the emotions part being placed on women and not on men. I've seen as many men feel and act on the same emotions as I've seen women. I.E. Cases of guys who killed their wives, that was emotion, not pride. To say that women are driven by emotions and men by ego and pride is a cliche.
I place blame on no one.
We are supposed to get our hearts broken. It's an emotion. We NEED IT. Why do we need it? So we feed off it. Duh! Girls, guys, lesbians, transexuals, gays, everyone. It's part of life.
Receive it, embrace it and keep going.
And I agree with Calvin, as well, no big deal.
If these dumb guys don't learn, or WANT to learn (remember it's the will that makes the power), then let them. After all, dumb people are supposed to be fucked over.

[LINK]

Women are taught social behavior all throughout their lives. Men are not.

It's simple.

Now if society knew about this, maybe things would change and men would start learning these social dynamics at an early age (in school).

Anyone who's ever seen the front page of Cosmopolitan
or Sex in the City knows that self-help, sexual improvement,
dating advice, and attraction skills is an accepted rite of
passage for women.

There is no equivalent for men: We are simply shown images
of women we are supposed to desire in the pages of Maxim
and Playboy, then not told what to do about it.

People get tutored for everything else in life. If you can't do
math, you get a tutor. Sex in the City was women getting tutored
in what to do with different types of men. I think the coolest thing
someone could do is recognize their weakness and work to
improve it.

[Ian Smith]

Unfortunately, it's not men or women who are stupid. It's the masses. Or actually Fortunately they are stupid. Because that makes things easier for us. But people aren't taught how to deal with such complex emotions and actions. So they flounder about aimlessly breaking their hearts over superficial bullshit until the end of days. Oh well.

Once you step back and see it for what it is. Things become very humorous.

[Nicholas Fahrenheit]

Fortunately there are some men who see the problem in themselves.. The ones who can step back and take a critical view of themselves, I did back in the day when I was obsessed over the girl. Assumedly all guys are bound to see this in theselves eventually.. But I think growing population and marriages can be put down to trial and error.

If what you did the first time didnt work, then try something different the second time, and the third time and the forth.. Eventually they should all find one that works for them. Or you can just man up and find he right one and get it right instead of guess and check.