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For you college playas and macks out there i recommend taking this specific class. This class will give you an understanding of women far greater then the community ever will. Its rid me of being sexist and allowing double standards. The community touchs the tip of the iceberg while a real class such as the one im taking has studies and researches backed up on what is being taught. Your teachings from the community will aid you in class. So all hope isn't lost. I've brought many philosophies of the seduction community in discussions and most have gotten positive feedback.

Books used:
1. A New Psychology of Women by Hilary m. Lips
2. Reconstructing Gender: A multicultural Anthology by Estelle Disch

If you guys want to i can put up the notes for this class. I can do it after finals.

One thing i would like to share is that today was the last day of what was being covered. After body language, after sex, after covering the impact of social conditioning, and all the dirty topics. My Professor brought up the idea of authenticity. What funny is a click went off in my head. This is what most of natural gamers preach. I thought it was interesting how at the end of the semester what comes out of all the teachings is the idea to just be you. To have the right values and live through that. Acceptance of self.

Another thing my feminist Professor emphasized in bold during lecture. She explained how many times relationships aren't at its best because one person believes they don't deserve the other person. She went further on to say:

Choices = Responsibility

Read that again and think of some of the times when you weren't as successful with women as you wanted to be. I believe most people want sucess but there is a fear of something new and they rather not be accountable for that. Some say they want a hot brunette with a yoga booty or a hot Asian with a great style.

But can they handle that?
Can they make the choices to be with a woman like her and take responsibility for that relationship?
Can they have her around without feeling like shes putting them through another shit test or that she better then them?
Can they be that guy that bangs her?
Can they be happy around her?
Will they make the choice?
How badly do they want it?
Can they be masculine enough to be with her? Can they handle her?

To aid this one should date many women to get a feel for the type of man they are. They can also actively work to become more masculine and dominating since our programming in this society constitutes this as attractive. Also authenticity is as we know important.

Of course more statements and question arose in my mind. (Being a psych major) Most of the world is social conditioning dictated by culture. So ideas of masculinity can change as femininity. Gender is a social construct created to have us acting in supposed roles.
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OMG a course about women? I studied Psychology, but I find it strange such a course exists haha. We had this course about sex-differences and stuff, but not particularely about women. Pretty daring to call it so.

I like "Choices = Responsibility". I just wrote an article about that for the psychology-magazine of my university. It's so true and so underestamated.

You know what I noticed about psychology-students? They are actually the people who know the least about others and are very egocentric. Especially the girls. They're trying to hard to play "sex and the city" in real life. Bunch of overemotional dramaqueens that have totally no sence of responsibility haha. Aint that strange? Shouldn't psychologystudents have the most?
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Depends on what aspect you look at it Uziel.

There's the academic, and the realistic.

Most psych students, or any student for that matter, look at this info in an academic sense. Of course, as we all know, attraction can not be understood academically.

Realistically, the ones who APPLY the teachings to real life are the ones who reap the benefits. They dont question or make hypotheses on the subject. They just do. And that's attraction and social dynamics. You just do it.

...I wonder if my college has that class?
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Hopefully when I go to my University they will offer this course or one similar to this. I bet its loaded with women too. Since I am a business major it will have to me an elective and if I want to take it further I can minor in psychology.
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My GF does Psychology...I'll pass on the comments Uziel! Btw, can you post some of your articles up on here? Would be cool to read some real shizzle.

Oh, and Vee, would be awesome to see those class notes dude, i'm really interested
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