Social skills?

[complex]

Wow! I've done a lot of mental processing in the last months and i called one of my ex-one-itis and asked her if she would like to teach me a bit about women, what attracts them and how they work. But she said she was rather sceptical and thought it was weird. After all i am an AFC so i'm not into what i should say and how to behave and stuff. But then i thought:"hey you are the one with the issues! At leats i'm trying to deal with myself and evolve!"

Whoa! i just had to get this out. Gotta go!
I'll be back!

[Ray Casanova]

She probably thought it was a weak attempt to start something up with her again. I think it's great that you're trying to improve yourself, but she probably thought you were trying to get back with her. Especially if you told her you were trying to deal with your issues she probably thought you were just being defensive because she "caught you".

PROTIP: it's all about perspective

Don't think of yourself as an AFC, hell get the damn word out of your system.

[Howitzer Method]

You need to change your state of mind to positive and congruent thinking. First thing you should do it's to stop stick a tag of loser on yourself. From position which you had in that relationship you won't be able to get some usefull information from your ex, so stop this attempts and go sarging!