You are Unregistered, please register to gain Full access.    

Go Back   Men's Lifestyle Design Forum - Powered by PUALifesyle.com > All the fundamental building blocks of living the best life you can live. > Social Skills, Romance and Dating


Social Skills, Romance and Dating "The People You Meet Will Shape Your Life" People Skills, Approaching, Conversation, Rapport, Storytelling, Seduction, Dates, Friendships, Love, Romance, Passion, Kissing, Sex, Nigh Clubs, Day Game, Flakes, Relationships, Trust, Commitment, and Field Reports!

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes

  #1 (permalink)  
Old 05-07-2009
Chikito's Avatar
Chikito Chikito is offline
Moderator
 
Activity Longevity
0/20 20/20
Today Posts
0/0 sssss1346
Location: London
Age: 22
Red face Shy girls.

Sometimes I loooove shy girls there is something about the lack of confidence that just makes me want to protect her so much and help her out of her shell. However I sometimes totally-fuck-it-up with them.

Its hard to talk to them because you get no feedback and they just sit there and giggle/smile/mumble but you know they are into you and you vice-versa. They have very protective friends and when you do finally crack past their shell and start to get to know them you find out tonnes of things that you can identify as reasons for their shyness.

The mistake I make is I assume they want to change this and I automatically (I think as a member of this site its a side-effect) want to help her to change things, make her better. But I forget that I have to ease it in. A lot of people have some deep-set negative beliefs and when I spill out some constructive criticism I accidentally offend them (lol).

Anyway what are your guys thoughts on gaming shy-girls some of it might be obvious but especially for people who are just starting to learn the art of seduction it is likely you will start/encounter a few shy ones.
Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 05-07-2009
NickH's Avatar
NickH NickH is offline
Moderator
 
Activity Longevity
0/20 20/20
Today Posts
0/0 sssss1324
Age: 24
Default

I hate it, like you said, they really dont talk much so you constantly have to fill the gaps which becomes annoying after a while.

I kinda fucked it up with a shy girl last year, I couldnt tell if she was into me because she didnt say much, so I took it as a no. Oh well, damn you shy people.
__________________
It is not 'sarging', it is socializing.

A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste- Entourage

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chikito View Post
They DHV by telling stories, we DHV by just existing because of the life's we live
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 05-07-2009
Elyts's Avatar
Elyts Elyts is offline
 
Activity Longevity
0/20 15/20
Today Posts
0/0 ssssss387
Location: Scarborough, Toronto
Age: 19
Default

My history with shy girls has consisted of me CONSTANTLY flirting and gaming them and usually being overly agressive because its hard to control yourself when you get no response from your "opposition" haha I was once with a really shy girl and like Nick, I got friggin pissed at the lack of WORDS escaping her lips and i basically left her...I feel shy girls are far more insecure because they dont ever have an opinion...they get overruled by louder, more agressive, more confident people (me LOL) and therefore can feel left out/unempowered etc. I dont really like to associate too deeply with shy girls, but sometimes once you crack their barrier, they can be the woman of your dreams, its just whether you bother trying to crack it hey if shes hot give it a shot haha...
__________________
Embarrassment is subjective...

I drink Listerine, I brush my teeth with amphetamines, so I can sound fresh, and say dope things in between

I shine so bright when I walk by, you gotta squint like a mo'fuckin sun in your eye
Reply With Quote
Reply

Tags
gaming, girls, pick-up, shy, shyness, under-confident, women

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Licking girls Chad C. Entertainment, Comedy and Recreation 1 09-07-2008 10:24 PM
The Ideal Man - What Girls Say Tom Church Social Skills, Romance and Dating 5 08-31-2008 12:07 PM
For those of you who think girls aren't dirty Tom Church Entertainment, Comedy and Recreation 5 08-14-2008 04:29 PM
Getting the girls you want! icemanmrfreeze Social Skills, Romance and Dating 4 04-01-2008 10:45 AM
PUA for Girls? Nova Entertainment, Comedy and Recreation 19 12-31-2007 12:57 PM



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 10:50 AM.



Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.